Someone post caught my eye.Almost all the points are link to my life. And the important part of the post I will put it in bold.

Love is the emotion of strong affection and personal attachment.

well, some people say, love is blind or love is painful or love is a war. whereas some say, love is everything. to me, love must involve communication, trust, give and take, understanding, care, sacrifice. some people say i love you, as if it is no big deal. but love is a huge deal. to love is to care, to give hope and to expect. but sometimes, things you expect might not come true. and that is when the disappointment comes in.

can there be love with no expectations? maybe. but whatever it is, when you love someone, or when you tell someone you love them, youre saying, you care for that someone or you know that someone cares for you. and by doing so, you expect the person to be there for you or depend on you. and lets say, if the person isnt there or when she/he find someone else to depend on, can you help but not feel a little bit sad? its funny sometimes that people who are in a relationship, might not be in love. but people who are in love are not in a relationship. to me, relationship leads to expectations, that is why, some people avoid it.

some people build their walls too high and when someone breaks their wall, they fall harder. so eventually, they will build their walls higher.

lets just open our hearts, take a risk and fall in love. if you're waiting for that particular someone and you think that someone is worth chasing after, chase them, what are you waiting for? if your hesitating, let them chase you. if they dont chase you, its okay, leave them. they dont love you enough. ( easy said than done )

and if you dont intend to finish what you started, lets say, a relationship, dont start it. avoid the heartbreaks. if you dont love the person, tell them ( even though it might be hard for them at 1st but its for the best ), at least the person wont be hoping on something that will never happen. and dont make someone fall in love with you, if you dont intend to catch them. if a girl or a guy says, she/he likes you no more than a friend, believe it. dont wait. if he or she says, lets be friends, run. avoid contact if there is still feelings. dont enter the zone, where you might be heartbroken. being friends means he or she can love someone else, start a relationship with someone else, and if you think that you cant handle it, leave. dont stay, dont wait, dont hang around. ( it might be hard, but its possible )

and to the people who wanna wait, tell them youre waiting, but not forever. if you wanna start a relationship or continue the relationship, but you keep on thinking on all the things that might go wrong, trust me, the relationship, will never happen, it will never work out. think off all the good things that might happen, and if it didnt work out, oh well, at least you tried.
8:11 AM By MASHAFIZ

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